What if there’s something better? What if I make the wrong choice? All valid questions, aren’t they? Most fear of commitment isn’t really about commitment itself. It’s about what commitment seems to threaten: options, escape routes, the comfort of knowing you can always leave.  Somewhere along the way, we’ve learned to associate staying with risk. Risk of disappointment, of choosing wrong, of being fully seen and realizing that something isn’t as perfect as we imagined. So in