How do I have faith in love again?
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Isn’t it terrifying to ponder the 'what ifs'? “What if everything goes wrong? What if I’m not ready? What if I’m abandoned again? What if...
Is love worth fighting for?
Do you really need to fight? Love is intrinsic to you. When you think you need to fight for it, you subconsciously assume it exists...
How can I let go of someone I love?
Love, and you will let go. Think of it like breathing. If you keep holding onto the air and resist breathing out, you will suffocate. You...
Why would I want to feel again if feeling causes me pain?
I get it. Emotionally detaching helps us shield ourselves from what our mind convinces us are ‘unnecessary distractions’ so we can keep...
Will you be there for yourself when you’re down?
Will you be your own best friend and stay with your long sigh after a bad day? Will you hold yourself with grace? Will you listen to...
What if I don’t end up with someone I love?
But what if you do? What if you let go of the idea that it has to be a certain person, and instead embrace the belief that whoever you...
The best gift we can give to ourselves
You know, I believe the best gift we can give to ourselves is to embrace our wholeness. It may feel scary and even wrong when we let our...
Battles of unconditional love
In battles that may arise between us I’ll let you claim each victory But I know deep within my heart My love, you mirror me 🤍 You can...
Love is you ❤️
There’s a kind of love that shares an unspoken communication, where their thoughts become your thoughts, their feelings become your...
Nine years in NYC
“I met New York. She was far beyond what I could have imagined. Well, at first, she seemed a little all over the place, but she was ‘it’!...
It's not about trying to lower your intensity
One day you’ll realize that you’re not too intense for the right one. It’s not about trying to lower your intensity but finding the right...
Believe in happy ending
Believe in happy ending. If you do, you’ll have it. If you don’t, you’re right.
Dear Class of 2024
Instead of a commencement speech, I have a story to share with you. Two years ago, I found myself stuck in a place of profound...
Self-love can’t be fulfilled until...
Self-love can’t be fulfilled until you also love your shadow.
Quiet your mind
Quiet your mind. Let your heart speak and your soul fly 🦋
We’re at war with our inner demons
We’re not at war with each other. We’re at war with our inner demons.
It took me 30 years to learn this
(and yes... I'm aware I had a typo here but I decided to keep this post as is because while I desire perfection, I choose to go with my...
Love isn´t meant to be controlled or explained
My dear, Love isn’t meant to be controlled or explained. It’s meant to be felt deeply, experienced fully, and embraced wholeheartedly.
The most intimate language
The most intimate language in the world is soul language.
"I’m trying to end an abusive relationship now… after 20 years..."
- So, what is Bloom in Crisis? - You know what, I can’t really explain it. I’ve been through a lot and it’s just my way of living that I...
"You’ll learn if he’s right for you or not."
- I really like him. - I know. It’s obvious. - Really? How? - Because you acted like you didn’t care when he was here. - Wow. Yeah, I...
"...when what she really should do is just walk away."
- You know, it drives me mad when I hear about stories like that. I just can't wrap my head around why it happens to strong women. Like...
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