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Why do I have to experience heartbreak?



It’s painful, I know.


Be it romantic or platonic, heartbreak aches deeply. Sometimes it feels like we’ve lost everything. Sometimes, it feels like nothing at all. Sometimes ‘feeling’ itself becomes the scariest word. We shut down. We let it burst. We stay, even though every cell in our body wants to leave. We walk away, even when every shattered piece of our heart yearns to cling.


We long to be more.


More seen. More understood. More loved.

Stronger. Happier. Better.


We think we’re the unlucky ones to suffer. We blame our heart for being too vulnerable, too fragile, wishing it were tougher, or big enough to stretch out and hold all our pains.


“Why me?”

“Why does it have to be this way?”

“Why is it so hard when all I want is to be happy?”

“Why can’t it just work?”


We get so wrapped up in our own feelings—viewing heartbreak as a place of lack that we overlook the gift it brings.


Every heartbreak teaches us. Every past relationship reveals how to be a better partner, not just to someone else, but to ourselves. Instead of tearing us down, it builds us up. It shapes us to attract people who are more aligned with our authenticity and our values.


Because without heartbreak, our heart remains limited.

Because heartbreak is not just an ending—it’s an opening.


To be limitless.


As our heart’s cracked wide open, we begin to experience love fully. To give and to receive love without bounds. Widely and deeply. We learn what love truly is.


The gift of heartbreak is abundance.

And through that abundance, love transcends into infinity.


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