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"I just broke up with this guy that I had been dating for a while..."



- I just broke up with this guy that I had been dating for a while... it was pretty toxic.

- Congratulations!

- …

- That's because you're now free from the toxicity. That's definitely worth celebrating! How are you feeling?

- I don’t know… it’s recent so I’m still sad about it…

- I get it. Congratulations to you again, em. For having feelings. It would be strange if you didn’t feel anything at all, and because you’re a human, it’s great to have feelings. I’m glad you’re aware of how you feel and acknowledge it when it’s present. And congratulations to you for choosing to liberate yourself and opening yourself up to welcome someone better into your life. One day your future self will be so grateful that you did this despite how hard it was, especially knowing how hard it was.

- Thank you so much, chi. Hearing this gives me hope :)

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