- Last weekend I just ran into a guy that I used to date almost three years ago.
- Really? I hope he wasn’t stalking you!
- Oh, no no… it’s not that haha. He’s a decent guy, and it was an amicable relationship. I texted him after the class to let him know that it was nice to see him, and he said so to me too. I didn’t realize how much I had grown until then, like, I really appreciate myself and who - I’ve become now.
- That’s good! So why did it end?
- I think we spoke different love languages. I think. I know he cared for me and I cared for him too, but something was just missing. I know I liked him but I didn’t feel like I could say I was in love…
- You know, I think love and infatuation are very different, though. I think love is built. My girlfriend and I were just friends when we started. We both were dating other people so totally respected that, then time went on and we just happened to become single again. One day, I just asked if she wanted to grab a coffee with me, and we started to see each other more often at events and group activities. And now I just really LOVE her!
- Aww. You know what, you made a great point. And I am so happy for you :)
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