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When drinking water, remember its source
In Vietnamese, we have a proverb “Uống nước nhớ nguồn,” which means “When drinking water, remember its source.” Simple words, but they carry generations of wisdom. It’s a gentle reminder to never forget where what sustains us comes from. And somehow… in some miraculous way, I find myself returning to this ancient truth, with lots to reflect on lately and more to share in the days ahead. In a world that moves fast and glorifies what’s new, it’s easy to take the “water” in our


How do I know when it’s the right timing?
I used to wait for signs… for someone to reassure me, for conditions to feel perfect, for some kind of confirmation that I wasn’t about to make a mistake. But waiting for external validation is its own kind of trap, you know? Because then your life is never really yours. You’re not here to take a passive role. You’re here to evolve. People will always have opinions, and circumstances will always keep changing. Even the most “perfect” condition has its own imperfections. And e


Why do I have to go through so much?
Perhaps not once, but you’ve asked yourself this question more times than you can count. Spoiler alert: it’s not because you’re cursed (of course). But it’s also not only because you’re being tested to see what you’re made of. It’s true—no one builds strength in seasons of comfort. You don’t realize how resilient you are until life stops being gentle on you. Remember back then? The very things that felt unbearable at the time are the same things that formed you. Not by accide


A Vietnamese woman’s way of resilience
The older I get, the more clearly I feel my root as a Vietnamese woman and the indelible imprint it leaves on me. Our homeland’s history is the work of making and keeping a country, and through every chapter, women have held the line. Beyond the heroines who fought on battlefields were the women at home who did it all—stocking the front with food and medicine, holding families together, raising children alone, cooking, mending, nursing. If something needed doing, they did it.


32 🕊 (on becoming and serving)
My birthday always arrives around the same time as two markers of history I grew up with: Vietnam’s Independence Day and Labor Day in the...


Why is nothing happening!?
I hear you. You’ve tried so hard. You’ve done everything you thought you could. And still… nothing. Trust me, I know. In every cell of my...


How can I overcome my insecurities?
I hope you know that you’re not alone in this journey. The confidence you see in others isn’t proof that you lack it. It’s a reflection that it also lives in you. It’s the shadow self that may speak louder than truth, but when you learn to integrate truth with it, you’ll transcend your own limited beliefs and step into the boundless field of possibilities. I hope you understand that this journey isn’t about instant gratification. Insecurities don’t vanish overnight. They sof


What’s the edge of being an underdog?
No one expects you to win. No one expects you to rise. No one expects you to even make it past the starting line. But what if that’s...


What can I do when I feel helpless?
Helplessness can feel like being caught in a wave we can’t control, can’t it? Sometimes, it feels even heavier than any burden we’ve ever...


When life becomes yoga
I completed 500 yoga classes last week. I’ve never really kept track of how many hours I’ve spent practicing yoga on my own. I know 500 is certainly a conservative count, but I didn’t even realize I had reached that number until I was told by the team at my favorite yoga studio. People often assume I’ve been doing yoga for years, but the truth is, it’s only been a little over two. I didn’t even work out before (I mean… I could barely do a single push-up!) I used to joke that


How can I master emotional regulation?
Emotional mastery isn’t about never feeling the waves. It’s about learning how to surf them without letting them drown your spirit. You don’t master your emotions by suppressing them or pretending they don’t exist. You master them by meeting them. By becoming deeply aware of how they rise in your body, how they color your thoughts, and what stories they’re trying to tell you. The more in touch you are with your emotions, the wiser you’ll become. Not by avoiding them, but by


How do I unlock the freedom within me?
Your soul is never caged. It might feel like it sometimes, but that feeling is an illusion—it’s the beliefs you’ve been holding onto that make you think you’re trapped. Nothing can cage a soul. Nothing. The world might place expectations on you. People might tell you who you should be, what you should want, how you should live. You might carry stories from your past that say you’re not enough, that you’re too much, that you don’t deserve to follow your deepest desires. But yo


When the pen becomes the sword: What AI can’t see in truth-telling
I wasn’t scared. Not because it wasn’t scary, but because I didn’t yet know what to fear. When I was a child, I didn’t realize how...


Dear Class of 2025
Dear Class of 2025, Who would’ve thought a girl who failed math and ranked second to last in her high school class in Vietnam would one...


What should I do when others try to dim my light?
Not everyone will celebrate your light. Some may try to dim it—not because of who you are, but because of what your presence reflects back to them. Your wholeness, your confidence, your peace… can all become mirrors to what they have yet to meet within themselves. But when others try to bring you down, it’s not your job to shrink. It’s your invitation to rise—with deeper grace, firmer boundaries, and wiser inner knowing. Because not every attack deserves a battle. Not every r


Why is it important to define my core values?
Our core values are not defined by some nice words that sell ourselves to the world—they are our spine , internal compass , even spiritual protection in times of crisis. In a world full of uncertainty, opinions, external expectations, and constant comparison, it’s easy to get carried away by the noise around us. But our values remind us what’s true. They bring us back to ourselves, and to the confidence within that was never truly lost. When we define our core values, we’re


How can I protect my energy from running out?
Your energy isn’t limited. It’s sacred. It doesn’t run out because you’re weak or not enough. It runs low when you’re surrounded by misaligned or low-vibration energy, whether from people, spaces, or even your own thoughts. There’s no physical border that can stop the spread of energy, yet everything we surround ourselves with in the physical world carries energy and has the power to influence ours, for better or worse. Everything carries a frequency, and energy expresses its


What am I here to learn?
Life has a way of placing mirrors in front of us—sometimes in the form of discomfort, sometimes in the form of pain. The things that trigger us, frustrate us, or break us aren’t just obstacles. They’re opportunities: to pause, to look within, and to ask “What is this here to teach me?” Not everything is fair, and not everything should have happened the way it did—but everything can still be used to grow. That’s the point. That’s where the shift happens. That’s when transmutat


Make work fun! (5 years of @bloomincrisis)
Today marks the five-year anniversary of Bloom in Crisis, and I’ve got to admit: after all this time, I’m still working on understanding...


Feeling overwhelmed?
I hear you. Close your eyes. Project yourself onto your mind screen. Take a deep breath. Tune in. Observe yourself, and listen to your heartbeat. Is it racing to catch up with your mind? You see, this person needs you. Even when you feel like shutting everything out, don’t shut yourself out. Even when you feel like you don’t want to care about anything anymore, please care for yourself. You need to be strong—not just for others, but for you. Give yourself an abundance of love


Let life be a ballad
I used to fear ballads, for they stirred emotions too deep in me. I used to fear dramas, for I had no reign over my tears. You know,...


Goodbye, Year of the Dragon.
Thank you for all the unexpected lessons and invaluable guidance. For being tough yet incredibly patient. For giving me opportunities to step out of my comfort zone. For awakening parts of myself I didn’t know existed and expanding my consciousness in ways I couldn’t have imagined. Thank you for cheering me on as I transformed my relationship with myself. For bringing out the courage in me through your gentle nudges. For not stopping me from giving but teaching me how to give


Should I follow my heart or my mind?
Isn’t this the everyday dilemma we all face? Your mind thinks it’s too risky; your heart feels caged. Your mind says it knows what’s best in the long run; your heart insists it has to be now. Your mind tells you to walk away; your heart begs you to stay. Life is full of decisions: which major to choose, what career to pursue, who to marry, when to quit, how to respond—the list goes on and on. When the mind is bound by logic and the heart tangled in feelings, the soul transcen


"How would you describe New York versus LA?"
- How would you describe New York versus LA? - I think LA creates the dreams you want to dream, while New York is where you make those...
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