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What is it like to be in a healthy relationship?
There’s a kind of love that enters your life not to complete you, but to remind you that you were never incomplete to begin with. You’re already whole. This love doesn’t try to fix you. But through its presence, you remember who you truly are beneath the surface—that quiet, sacred essence of you that may not be known to the world, but is the very thing that makes you, you . It feels like safety —not because life is perfect, but because you can be fully yourself without fear.


How can I protect my energy from running out?
Your energy isn’t limited. It’s sacred. It doesn’t run out because you’re weak or not enough. It runs low when you’re surrounded by misaligned or low-vibration energy, whether from people, spaces, or even your own thoughts. There’s no physical border that can stop the spread of energy, yet everything we surround ourselves with in the physical world carries energy and has the power to influence ours, for better or worse. Everything carries a frequency, and energy expresses its


Feeling overwhelmed?
I hear you. Close your eyes. Project yourself onto your mind screen. Take a deep breath. Tune in. Observe yourself, and listen to your heartbeat. Is it racing to catch up with your mind? You see, this person needs you. Even when you feel like shutting everything out, don’t shut yourself out. Even when you feel like you don’t want to care about anything anymore, please care for yourself. You need to be strong—not just for others, but for you. Give yourself an abundance of love


If you love someone
If you love someone, love them tenderly. Love them in a way that speaks directly to their soul, reassuring them that even in their lowest moments, through heated arguments or life’s uncertainties, your unshakable bond will always endure—a bond so strong that it offers you both boundless healing and the strength to rise even stronger. If you love someone, love them genuinely. Love them not for what they offer you, but simply for their essence. Love them for who they are in thi


Let life be a ballad
I used to fear ballads, for they stirred emotions too deep in me. I used to fear dramas, for I had no reign over my tears. You know,...


Holiday Issue(s) 2025: How to find love and make it last
People say love comes when you stop looking. They also say it only shows up when you start looking. “But what if neither is true?” you...


"You don’t understand women. They prefer it in person."
- How do you guys date nowadays? Are you just using the app? - Haha, I might not be the best person to answer that. But yeah, the app is...


Should I follow my heart or my mind?
Isn’t this the everyday dilemma we all face? Your mind thinks it’s too risky; your heart feels caged. Your mind says it knows what’s best in the long run; your heart insists it has to be now. Your mind tells you to walk away; your heart begs you to stay. Life is full of decisions: which major to choose, what career to pursue, who to marry, when to quit, how to respond—the list goes on and on. When the mind is bound by logic and the heart tangled in feelings, the soul transcen


How can I heal from a broken heart?
(“What if I lose the one I love?” - Part 2) Here you are, back at the same old crossroads again. Down the chosen path. Alone. Let the...


What is the truth?
Simple question, but not always simple to answer, is it? How convenient it would be to associate truth with what we know. My truth, your...


How can I overcome the dark night of the soul?
Be strong The dark night of the soul isn’t for the faint of heart. You experience it for a reason, and that reason is for you to be...


"How do you teach them about surrender, though?"
- How do you teach them about surrender, though? They’re so young… My older boy wants to join the military, and it’s been really hard for...


"...but he’s afraid that if he tells her, they won’t be able to stay friends anymore."
- My younger boy is 16 now. You know, he’s been good friends with this girl that he really likes, and he told me he didn’t know what to...


Can we put war to an end?
(found this little note i wrote to myself a few months ago... 🙏) War is inevitable. We will never be able to stop wars from happening...


Why can’t I let go of this negative energy?
It’s frustrating, isn’t it? We hear ‘let go’ all the time, but ironically, that phrase can be misleading, leaving us feeling stuck because we’re not sure how to let go of the energy we carry. But what if it’s not really about trying to let go at all? What we often forget is that energy isn’t an object. It’s not something we can simply throw away or turn off like a light switch. Energy doesn’t just disappear—it shifts. It transforms and can be transformed. Think of energy lik


How do I have faith in love again?
Isn’t it terrifying to ponder the 'what ifs'? “What if everything goes wrong? What if I’m not ready? What if I’m abandoned again? What if I fall out of love? What if I lose my freedom? What if we become codependent and lose our sense of identity? What if we actually don’t want the same things? What if I’m not good enough? What if I’m never good enough?” You long for happiness, but all you can hear is the chatter in your mind and the external voices telling you that love just


How can I let go of someone I love?
Love, and you will let go. Think of it like breathing. If you keep holding onto the air and resist breathing out, you will suffocate. You need oxygen to stay alive, but you can’t survive by holding onto a breath forever. It’s the act of breathing in and out that keeps you alive. Inhale: you fill yourself with love. Exhale: you give that love the freedom to fly. Your mind convinces you that you want to be loved, and your heart whispers that you want to feel loved. But your s


What if I don’t end up with someone I love?
But what if you do? What if you let go of the idea that it has to be a certain person, and instead embrace the belief that whoever you...


The best gift we can give to ourselves
You know, I believe the best gift we can give to ourselves is to embrace our wholeness. It may feel scary and even wrong when we let our...


If you want to see what the soul looks like
If you want to see what the soul looks like, close your eyes Be soft Lose yourself in the movement of time Flow freely to the melody of your own energy Feel everything passing through you, without holding onto anything, without worrying if it’s perfect, without expecting an ideal outcome Crack your heart open wide Let your mind shine the light You’ll see that there’s nothing to see but a sense of wholeness of interconnectedness with all beings and with the universe itsel


Dear Class of 2024
Dear Class of 2024, Instead of a commencement speech, I have a story to share with you. Two years ago, I found myself stuck in a place of profound discontentment, trying to break free from old patterns and desperately yearning to see a glimmer of light at the end of the tunnel. In fact, the tunnel seemed so dark and long that I started to question my own optimism, which is rare for someone who tends to look on the bright side of things, like me. I longed for a light. I longed


Year of the Cat in review
To me, this Year of the Cat feels like a crash course. Perhaps it’s the most intense year that I’ve been through with so much to learn not only about life in general but also about myself. So much so that it tests my limits and helps me learn the art of acceptance. So much so that it teaches me what I’m made of and brings me the answers I didn’t know I would need. So much so that I surrender to everything I can’t control and laser-focus on what I can. So much so that I intern


Holiday Issue(s) 2024: How to be the change you want to see
“Why am I feeling upset?” Some people avoid this question, some run away from it, some are afraid to think about it, some think about it...


Help people heal
Help people heal, if you can. And even when you don’t know how to, simply giving them a warm hug in silence will be enough ❤️🩹❤️
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