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What if I don’t end up with someone I love?
But what if you do? What if you let go of the idea that it has to be a certain person, and instead embrace the belief that whoever you...


The best gift we can give to ourselves
You know, I believe the best gift we can give to ourselves is to embrace our wholeness. It may feel scary and even wrong when we let our...


Battles of unconditional love
In battles that may arise between us I’ll let you claim each victory But I know deep within my heart My love, you are me 🤍 You can...


Love is you ❤️
There’s a kind of love that shares an unspoken communication, where their thoughts become your thoughts, their feelings become your...


Nine years in NYC
“I met New York. She was far beyond what I could have imagined. Well, at first, she seemed a little all over the place, but she was ‘it’!...


It's not about trying to lower your intensity
One day you’ll realize that you’re not too intense for the right one. It’s not about trying to lower your intensity but finding the right...


Believe in happy ending
Believe in happy ending. If you do, you’ll have it. If you don’t, you’re right.


Dear Class of 2024
Dear Class of 2024, Instead of a commencement speech, I have a story to share with you. Two years ago, I found myself stuck in a place of profound discontentment, trying to break free from old patterns and desperately yearning to see a glimmer of light at the end of the tunnel. In fact, the tunnel seemed so dark and long that I started to question my own optimism, which is rare for someone who tends to look on the bright side of things, like me. I longed for a light. I longed


Self-love can’t be fulfilled until...
Self-love can’t be fulfilled until you also love your shadow.


Quiet your mind
Quiet your mind. Let your heart speak and your soul fly 🦋


We’re at war with our inner demons
We’re not at war with each other. We’re at war with our inner demons.


It took me 30 years to learn this
(and yes... I'm aware I had a typo here but I decided to keep this post as is because while I desire perfection, I choose to go with my...


Love isn´t meant to be controlled or explained
My dear, Love isn’t meant to be controlled or explained. It’s meant to be felt deeply, experienced fully, and embraced wholeheartedly.


The most intimate language
The most intimate language in the world is soul language.


"I’m trying to end an abusive relationship now… after 20 years..."
- So, what is Bloom in Crisis? - You know what, I can’t really explain it. I’ve been through a lot and it’s just my way of living that I...


"You’ll learn if he’s right for you or not."
- I really like him. - I know. It’s obvious. - Really? How? - Because you acted like you didn’t care when he was here. - Wow. Yeah, I...


"...when what she really should do is just walk away."
- You know, it drives me mad when I hear about stories like that. I just can't wrap my head around why it happens to strong women. Like...


What was the most important lesson that you learned in 2023?
🧧 As we wrap up the Year of the Rabbit (or Year of the Cat in Vietnam), we asked our members from the Asian community to share the most...


The prerequisite for healthy relationships
Self-love is the prerequisite for any kind of healthy relationships.


Year of the Cat in review
To me, this Year of the Cat feels like a crash course. Perhaps it’s the most intense year that I’ve been through with so much to learn not only about life in general but also about myself. So much so that it tests my limits and helps me learn the art of acceptance. So much so that it teaches me what I’m made of and brings me the answers I didn’t know I would need. So much so that I surrender to everything I can’t control and laser-focus on what I can. So much so that I intern


The unspoken rule that holds our family together
Growing up, I’ve learned that there’s an unspoken rule in our family: no matter how big the conflict is, our unconditional love for each...


When you truly love someone
When you truly love someone, you’ll want the best for them even if that means their happiness is not with you. You will make them feel...
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