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32 🕊 (on becoming and serving)
My birthday always arrives around the same time as two markers of history I grew up with: Vietnam’s Independence Day and Labor Day in the...


Why is nothing happening!?
I hear you. You’ve tried so hard. You’ve done everything you thought you could. And still… nothing. Trust me, I know. In every cell of my...


How can I overcome my insecurities?
I hope you know that you’re not alone in this journey. The confidence you see in others isn’t proof that you lack it. It’s a reflection that it also lives in you. It’s the shadow self that may speak louder than truth, but when you learn to integrate truth with it, you’ll transcend your own limited beliefs and step into the boundless field of possibilities. I hope you understand that this journey isn’t about instant gratification. Insecurities don’t vanish overnight. They sof


What’s the edge of being an underdog?
No one expects you to win. No one expects you to rise. No one expects you to even make it past the starting line. But what if that’s...


What can I do when I feel helpless?
Helplessness can feel like being caught in a wave we can’t control, can’t it? Sometimes, it feels even heavier than any burden we’ve ever...


When life becomes yoga
I completed 500 yoga classes last week. I’ve never really kept track of how many hours I’ve spent practicing yoga on my own. I know 500 is certainly a conservative count, but I didn’t even realize I had reached that number until I was told by the team at my favorite yoga studio. People often assume I’ve been doing yoga for years, but the truth is, it’s only been a little over two. I didn’t even work out before (I mean… I could barely do a single push-up!) I used to joke that


How can I master emotional regulation?
Emotional mastery isn’t about never feeling the waves. It’s about learning how to surf them without letting them drown your spirit. You don’t master your emotions by suppressing them or pretending they don’t exist. You master them by meeting them. By becoming deeply aware of how they rise in your body, how they color your thoughts, and what stories they’re trying to tell you. The more in touch you are with your emotions, the wiser you’ll become. Not by avoiding them, but by


How do I unlock the freedom within me?
Your soul is never caged. It might feel like it sometimes, but that feeling is an illusion—it’s the beliefs you’ve been holding onto that make you think you’re trapped. Nothing can cage a soul. Nothing. The world might place expectations on you. People might tell you who you should be, what you should want, how you should live. You might carry stories from your past that say you’re not enough, that you’re too much, that you don’t deserve to follow your deepest desires. But yo


When the pen becomes the sword: What AI can’t see in truth-telling
I wasn’t scared. Not because it wasn’t scary, but because I didn’t yet know what to fear. When I was a child, I didn’t realize how...


Dear Class of 2025
Dear Class of 2025, Who would’ve thought a girl who failed math and ranked second to last in her high school class in Vietnam would one...


What should I do when others try to dim my light?
Not everyone will celebrate your light. Some may try to dim it—not because of who you are, but because of what your presence reflects back to them. Your wholeness, your confidence, your peace… can all become mirrors to what they have yet to meet within themselves. But when others try to bring you down, it’s not your job to shrink. It’s your invitation to rise—with deeper grace, firmer boundaries, and wiser inner knowing. Because not every attack deserves a battle. Not every r


Why is it important to define my core values?
Our core values are not defined by some nice words that sell ourselves to the world—they are our spine , internal compass , even spiritual protection in times of crisis. In a world full of uncertainty, opinions, external expectations, and constant comparison, it’s easy to get carried away by the noise around us. But our values remind us what’s true. They bring us back to ourselves, and to the confidence within that was never truly lost. When we define our core values, we’re


What is it like to be in a healthy relationship?
There’s a kind of love that enters your life not to complete you, but to remind you that you were never incomplete to begin with. You’re already whole. This love doesn’t try to fix you. But through its presence, you remember who you truly are beneath the surface—that quiet, sacred essence of you that may not be known to the world, but is the very thing that makes you, you . It feels like safety —not because life is perfect, but because you can be fully yourself without fear.


How can I protect my energy from running out?
Your energy isn’t limited. It’s sacred. It doesn’t run out because you’re weak or not enough. It runs low when you’re surrounded by misaligned or low-vibration energy, whether from people, spaces, or even your own thoughts. There’s no physical border that can stop the spread of energy, yet everything we surround ourselves with in the physical world carries energy and has the power to influence ours, for better or worse. Everything carries a frequency, and energy expresses its


I write for the souls
Lots to reflect on lately… I’m usually good with words, but sometimes it’s still hard to translate what the soul feels into a language...


What am I here to learn?
Life has a way of placing mirrors in front of us—sometimes in the form of discomfort, sometimes in the form of pain. The things that trigger us, frustrate us, or break us aren’t just obstacles. They’re opportunities: to pause, to look within, and to ask “What is this here to teach me?” Not everything is fair, and not everything should have happened the way it did—but everything can still be used to grow. That’s the point. That’s where the shift happens. That’s when transmutat


Make work fun! (5 years of @bloomincrisis)
Today marks the five-year anniversary of Bloom in Crisis, and I’ve got to admit: after all this time, I’m still working on understanding...


The joy of being a girl
On International Women’s Day this year, I want to honor the little girl in me. The girl who used to be stubborn, impulsive, and restless. The girl once known more for her masculinity than her femininity—dominating, controlling, rebellious. The girl who loved being the provider, the builder, the fixer. Who preferred pants over dresses. Who never hesitated to stand up for the underdog, to take risks, to speak out. The girl who never quite fit in. I’ve also seen this same girl—w


Feeling overwhelmed?
I hear you. Close your eyes. Project yourself onto your mind screen. Take a deep breath. Tune in. Observe yourself, and listen to your heartbeat. Is it racing to catch up with your mind? You see, this person needs you. Even when you feel like shutting everything out, don’t shut yourself out. Even when you feel like you don’t want to care about anything anymore, please care for yourself. You need to be strong—not just for others, but for you. Give yourself an abundance of love


If you love someone
If you love someone, love them tenderly. Love them in a way that speaks directly to their soul, reassuring them that even in their lowest moments, through heated arguments or life’s uncertainties, your unshakable bond will always endure—a bond so strong that it offers you both boundless healing and the strength to rise even stronger. If you love someone, love them genuinely. Love them not for what they offer you, but simply for their essence. Love them for who they are in thi


Let life be a ballad
I used to fear ballads, for they stirred emotions too deep in me. I used to fear dramas, for I had no reign over my tears. You know,...


Dear 2025 (Year of the Snake)
may i be like the moon this year casting light to dissolve fear guiding tides with a quiet sway whole as one, no matter what they say may i be like the sky this year hugging the stars, holding them dear rising so high, unbound and free a shelter of love for those who long to be may i be like the wind this year blowing away sadness, whispering cheer letting go of all with ease at peace i am, a gentle breeze may i be like bamboo this year standing tall as the storms draw near b


Goodbye, Year of the Dragon.
Thank you for all the unexpected lessons and invaluable guidance. For being tough yet incredibly patient. For giving me opportunities to step out of my comfort zone. For awakening parts of myself I didn’t know existed and expanding my consciousness in ways I couldn’t have imagined. Thank you for cheering me on as I transformed my relationship with myself. For bringing out the courage in me through your gentle nudges. For not stopping me from giving but teaching me how to give


"Social media gives me anxiety"
"Social media gives me anxiety. Only those who are closest to me would know this. I have to ask myself again and again why I feel that...
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