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Why is it important to define my core values?
Our core values are not defined by some nice words that sell ourselves to the world—they are our spine , internal compass , even spiritual protection in times of crisis. In a world full of uncertainty, opinions, external expectations, and constant comparison, it’s easy to get carried away by the noise around us. But our values remind us what’s true. They bring us back to ourselves, and to the confidence within that was never truly lost. When we define our core values, we’re


What is it like to be in a healthy relationship?
There’s a kind of love that enters your life not to complete you, but to remind you that you were never incomplete to begin with. You’re already whole. This love doesn’t try to fix you. But through its presence, you remember who you truly are beneath the surface—that quiet, sacred essence of you that may not be known to the world, but is the very thing that makes you, you . It feels like safety —not because life is perfect, but because you can be fully yourself without fear.


How can I protect my energy from running out?
Your energy isn’t limited. It’s sacred. It doesn’t run out because you’re weak or not enough. It runs low when you’re surrounded by misaligned or low-vibration energy, whether from people, spaces, or even your own thoughts. There’s no physical border that can stop the spread of energy, yet everything we surround ourselves with in the physical world carries energy and has the power to influence ours, for better or worse. Everything carries a frequency, and energy expresses its


I write for the souls
Lots to reflect on lately… I’m usually good with words, but sometimes it’s still hard to translate what the soul feels into a language...


What am I here to learn?
Life has a way of placing mirrors in front of us—sometimes in the form of discomfort, sometimes in the form of pain. The things that trigger us, frustrate us, or break us aren’t just obstacles. They’re opportunities: to pause, to look within, and to ask “What is this here to teach me?” Not everything is fair, and not everything should have happened the way it did—but everything can still be used to grow. That’s the point. That’s where the shift happens. That’s when transmutat


Make work fun! (5 years of @bloomincrisis)
Today marks the five-year anniversary of Bloom in Crisis, and I’ve got to admit: after all this time, I’m still working on understanding...


The joy of being a girl
On International Women’s Day this year, I want to honor the little girl in me. The girl who used to be stubborn, impulsive, and restless. The girl once known more for her masculinity than her femininity—dominating, controlling, rebellious. The girl who loved being the provider, the builder, the fixer. Who preferred pants over dresses. Who never hesitated to stand up for the underdog, to take risks, to speak out. The girl who never quite fit in. I’ve also seen this same girl—w


Feeling overwhelmed?
I hear you. Close your eyes. Project yourself onto your mind screen. Take a deep breath. Tune in. Observe yourself, and listen to your heartbeat. Is it racing to catch up with your mind? You see, this person needs you. Even when you feel like shutting everything out, don’t shut yourself out. Even when you feel like you don’t want to care about anything anymore, please care for yourself. You need to be strong—not just for others, but for you. Give yourself an abundance of love


If you love someone
If you love someone, love them tenderly. Love them in a way that speaks directly to their soul, reassuring them that even in their lowest moments, through heated arguments or life’s uncertainties, your unshakable bond will always endure—a bond so strong that it offers you both boundless healing and the strength to rise even stronger. If you love someone, love them genuinely. Love them not for what they offer you, but simply for their essence. Love them for who they are in thi


Let life be a ballad
I used to fear ballads, for they stirred emotions too deep in me. I used to fear dramas, for I had no reign over my tears. You know,...


Dear 2025 (Year of the Snake)
may i be like the moon this year casting light to dissolve fear guiding tides with a quiet sway whole as one, no matter what they say may i be like the sky this year hugging the stars, holding them dear rising so high, unbound and free a shelter of love for those who long to be may i be like the wind this year blowing away sadness, whispering cheer letting go of all with ease at peace i am, a gentle breeze may i be like bamboo this year standing tall as the storms draw near b


Goodbye, Year of the Dragon.
Thank you for all the unexpected lessons and invaluable guidance. For being tough yet incredibly patient. For giving me opportunities to step out of my comfort zone. For awakening parts of myself I didn’t know existed and expanding my consciousness in ways I couldn’t have imagined. Thank you for cheering me on as I transformed my relationship with myself. For bringing out the courage in me through your gentle nudges. For not stopping me from giving but teaching me how to give


"Social media gives me anxiety"
"Social media gives me anxiety. Only those who are closest to me would know this. I have to ask myself again and again why I feel that...


Holiday Issue(s) 2025: How to find love and make it last
People say love comes when you stop looking. They also say it only shows up when you start looking. “But what if neither is true?” you...


The most needed change
When I sat down to write the Holiday Issue(s) last year , I was determined to hold myself accountable for change. And I did. I’ve...


What is intimacy?
What comes to mind when you hear the word "intimacy"? Is it the gentle touch tracing the curve of your neck? The unspoken conversation deciphered through a gaze? The half-formed sentence that doesn’t need to be completed? Or the waves of energy that suddenly pull you back into a shared space with someone you love? Intimacy is so much more than physical closeness—it’s an emotional, mental, and spiritual connection, transcending words and actions in ways that power can’t force


"You don’t understand women. They prefer it in person."
- How do you guys date nowadays? Are you just using the app? - Haha, I might not be the best person to answer that. But yeah, the app is...


Should I follow my heart or my mind?
Isn’t this the everyday dilemma we all face? Your mind thinks it’s too risky; your heart feels caged. Your mind says it knows what’s best in the long run; your heart insists it has to be now. Your mind tells you to walk away; your heart begs you to stay. Life is full of decisions: which major to choose, what career to pursue, who to marry, when to quit, how to respond—the list goes on and on. When the mind is bound by logic and the heart tangled in feelings, the soul transcen


How much giving is enough?
“Always give at least a little bit more than you have to.” That’s what I’ve been trying to remind myself ever since I wrote it down,...


How can I heal from a broken heart?
(“What if I lose the one I love?” - Part 2) Here you are, back at the same old crossroads again. Down the chosen path. Alone. Let the...


What if I lose the one I love?
Finding yourself at the intersection of a crossroads, you pause. Standing by your side is the one you’ve loved so deeply, and ahead are...


What yoga is not
If you know me, you probably know I can talk endlessly about how yoga has changed my life. But setting aside what yoga is (which I find impossible to condense within the limit of a few thousand words), I also love yoga for what it is not . ✨ Yoga isn’t a competition. Everyone’s journey is different, but anyone who practices yoga for more than just the physical benefits knows that it’s not about trying to get ahead of others. On the contrary, it’s about learning to understan


Why do I have to experience heartbreak?
It’s painful, I know. Be it romantic or platonic, heartbreak aches deeply. Sometimes it feels like we’ve lost everything. Sometimes, it feels like nothing at all. Sometimes ‘feeling’ itself becomes the scariest word. We shut down. We let it burst. We stay, even though every cell in our body wants to leave. We walk away, even when every shattered piece of our heart yearns to cling. We long to be more. More seen. More understood. More loved. Stronger. Happier. Better. We think
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